I have been meaning to write this blog post for several days now, but have yet to actually sit down and type it out. So without any further ado, here it goes!
I happen to have a few close guy friends, and I can’t help but find it amusing and rather intriguing the amount on “Girls only information” they happen to try to drag out of me. While I am all for the girls, I have come to appreciate the fact that some guys really are searching for a way to please their girl, and just don’t quite know how, so usually I break down and share a little of what I know to be truth about us girls. Well the other night I was asked “What kind of things do girls think are really special?” While I do not claim to be correct all the time, or think I have everything figured out, nor that all girls are like me… here is what I know.
1. Girls love the idea of kissing in the rain! I have yet to talk to any girl, who hasn’t agreed, that this is super romantic.
2. Write us love letters… do not type, email, or text it to us, actually take the time to pen down your thoughts on paper. Not only can we keep these forever, but it means 10 times more, as you put your time into it.
3. We love when you all take the time to go in depth on your feelings. Any guy can say “I love you” or “You’re beautiful”, but why do you love us? What is so beautiful about us?
4. (This one may not be for every girl, but I know several who agree) We really aren’t mad if you do not have time to talk to us. However, if you cannot, let us know. You don’t have to give a full blow explanation… a simple, I have homework to do, or I am running errands will suffice. Don’t ignore us, or just stop in the middle of a conversation… this leaves us hanging and is just against proper etiquette.
5. Good morning and Goodnight text, calls or emails mean 100 times more than you think!! Trust me on this one. 🙂
6. Lastly, while someone could spell it all out for you, us girls love it when you take the time to learn about us as individuals. Try to figure us out, and be creative. A girl would much rather go along with something you planned yourself, even if it is not perfect, than go on a perfect date that someone else put together. You are you, and we love you for you! So just be yourself 🙂
Like I said, some girls would not agree with me on this, but I know a lot of girls that do. What are some other things that girls want guys to know?!?! Share your thoughts below 🙂
Totally Belle 